Are you having healthy fight with your significant one?

Arguments in a relationship are healthy discussion to explain your side but are you having it with fair healthy fight? In a true emotional bonding relation it becomes difficult to recognize when a healthy fight converting into unhealthy fight. If you are having healthy fight then there are more chances to say your anxiety causes very clearly and in respectful way. Unhealthy fight will just damage and destroy the relation. If you are allowing emotions to enter in discussion then this is risky that you will intensify your argument.

Despite of burning up your energy in an unhealthy fight, try to say your heart in a respectful way in front your significant one. A fair discussion will always end on a peaceful conclusion. Here we are giving you some sign of unhealthy fight that will answer you about are you having fair healthy fight with your significant one?

Do not listen you partner

Communication is the only way to sort out all the misunderstandings but you do not want listen to your partner. You do not give chance to say their side. To make a fight healthy peaceful communication is core element and will remain you in this beautiful relation forever. So just both just listen to each other and do not ignore the point of view of your partner. If you will only believe on your sayings or truth and will not give importance to your partner’s point of view then will just spoil the relation.

Want to win argument

If you are constantly trying to prove only your truth and having a strong desire to win this argument then it’s a completely unhealthy fight.  In desire of win you become aggressive to prove the truth. This situation will make feel your partner just attacked and now argument escalates into dreadful fight. So do not try to be always clever and discuss on each issue otherwise your partner will feel unvalued and unheard.

Argument with anger

Anger will always force you to say that things, on which you will regret later. Try to focus on the subject of the discussion, not on the other person. Anger is an exterminatory emotion that harm you more and badly. Therefore only focus on the subject will transform it in an innocent argument. if you are unable to control on your anger then just stop that argument and go for fresh air. Never dare to say some words or tones that can hurt you partner, keep your heart friendly and lovable for your partner.

Take turns of speaking and listening

If you are too emotional and hot-tempered person then try you best to take turns of listening and speaking. It is essential part of argument that if one is speaking then other one should wait to say their side and should try listen to your partner carefully. It will make your argument totally fair and healthy.

Raising the voice

Argument on a matter in a relationship is always serious and too difficult. In that situation try to control on yourself and do not raise voice. Have your emotions in your hand and talk carefully on all disputable causes. It is very well known that people try to win the argument with this irritating and not acceptable habit, raising the voice. Raising the voice only will feel your partner guilty and ashamed so behave on yourself whenever arguing.

 

If you truly respect and love your partner then understand the significance of your relation and your partner. Always remember this that you cannot change your partner. You just can make changes in your own life so keep your relationship healthy and stable.